慧命比生命更重要

慧命比生命更重要

慧命比生命更重要 – 访电台主持人阿栋

初识阿栋,是于2011年新加坡佛教总会的卫塞节庆典,当时他主持一个青年开讲节目,与多名嘉宾谈素食趋势,希望引起大家关注环保课题。后来发现他还热爱影像艺术,喜欢游泳,感觉这个充满阳光的佛教青年,生活多姿多彩之余,也热切关心社会。现年26岁的阿栋,全名林为栋,自新大企业财务系毕业后,从事电台1003主持工作至今。他从7岁开始在母亲的熏陶下学习佛法,虽然现在生活异常忙碌,他还是会尽量抽空出席佛堂的开示和共修活动。新年伊始,阿栋与大家分享他如何落实佛法到生活中,以及佛法如何影响他的人生。

◎佛法对你而言最重要的教导是什么?

⊙我的师父(圣开法师)教我们要在“动中修”,就是在生活中修佛,在人群中修法,这其实更考功夫。人人都有自尊,众生皆无明,我们的贪嗔痴常常令我们迷失方向。很多人都会随着起心动念,而升起各种负面的情绪,因此我们必须清楚了解念头的生灭,才能避免做出愚蠢的事,并且以智慧做人。我自己有时说完话,才后知后觉自己语气重了,因为失去觉照内心而感觉内疚。都市人做什么事情都贪快,要及时反应,其实慢一点也可以的,没有人会怪你。我们都能学着慢下来,观察自己的起心动念,并养成一种习惯。

◎ 你在工作上如何落实佛法?

⊙ 很多人在职场上要求高薪,很在乎个人得失,对别人的成就会产生嫉妒心,如果达不到目标就感觉失落挫败。这些情绪在我生活中是找不到的。最近我和同事在户外做现场直播节目,不料发生状况造成电台无法接收,大家都很着急,当时我只是专注于思考如何解决问题。这种突发事故不是我们能控制的,能做好的已经做好,因此没有必要去担忧或感觉挫败。佛法其实教导我们学习面对生活难题,解决它并放下它。

◎ 回顾2011年,有什么令你难忘的事?

⊙ 2011年的人生体验很多,尤其我母亲因为患癌在4月往生,之前她经过一段艰辛的路程,承受着化疗的副作用,例如头发掉落、脸色不好,但她坦然接受治疗。她知道身体只是躯壳,不能长久,她也不在乎身体的痛苦。我在她身上看到佛法的力量,已经是超越了追求某种美好。母亲的往生让我坚信人生有许多追求都不重要,并促使我去寻找永远不会消灭的东西,那就是慧命。对我来说,慧命比生命更重要,也就是佛说的自性本体。现在许多佛教徒很会修福,但是他们忘了修慧也很重要。如果我们一味求佛拜佛,凡事要摸得着看得到,这会导致我们在学佛的道路上绊倒。

◎ 2012年的到来,你有什么新年愿望吗?

⊙我觉得社会有很多需要我们关怀关照的人,希望我能借着个人微薄的力量,帮助更多人。我们有一个广播节目《从关怀出发》,每个月会根据不同的专题做深入报道,例如爱之病、阿尔兹海默症、肌肉萎缩症等等,让大家对这些疾病有所认识,而不会产生误解或感到害怕,更希望大家给予这些病患者更多的关心。

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我们都是修行者

我们都是修行者

“人生就是一种修行”这是《非诚勿扰2》的一句台词,道出了人生不如意的事十之八九的无奈。如果真能站在修行的角度面对人生,那么生命的历程终将圆满正果。

什么是修行呢?我的理解:怀着一颗平常心来面对身边的人与物。不要执着物而忽略了人的存在,也不要执着人而忽略了人的感受。当我们拥有的时候要懂得感恩,当我们失去的时候要懂得放下。感恩让我们懂得珍惜人生的一二件兴事,放下却是人生的一种智慧。人生无常,事事无常,别让自己变得纠结,别让自己变得痛苦,不管是大丈夫,还是新女性都一样要:难忍能忍,难行能行。

修行本不易,改变的是自己,改变的是心态。要让好事变成好事,要让坏事也变成好事。如同佛法的四正勤:已生恶令灭,未生恶令不生;未生善令生,已生善令增长。每个人都太在乎自己的感受,都将自己划为世界的中心。如果宇宙的行星也如这般,那将不知人类毁灭多少次了。我们其实很渺小,就像一粒沙子一浮游的微尘,我们的光和热需要凝聚。我们其实也很强大,每个人都能改变世界,那怕是一点点善也是改变;那怕是一点点恶也是罪过。

修行是人生的境界,是智慧的显现。当我们感受到人生的不如意,体会到人生的事事无常,人生将赋予我们更大的意义。默默的守候,默默的祝愿,独自承担所有的痛苦,换取他人的幸福,只有这样我们人生的修行,才能圆满的走向终点!

听听小女儿送给最亲的人——父亲的诗:你见,或者你不见我,我就在那里,不悲不喜。你念,或者不念我,情就在那里,不来不去。你爱,或者不爱我,爱就在那里,不增不减。你跟,或者不跟我,我的手就在你的手里,不舍不弃。来我的怀里,或者让我住在你的心里,默然、相爱、寂静、欢喜。

文:石溪林

Traversing the Meandering River of Karma

Selflessness matters

When I was growing up as a monk in a Thai forest monastery, we had to make the robes we wear ourselves. It was not an easy task. Not only do we had to take the cloth, cut it out and sew it, we also had to dye it ourselves by boiling chips of wood from the jackfruit tree to get the sap. Even without sleep, it took literally days to make them. I remembered there was this group of monks who had no rest due to making the robes for 36 to 40 hours. Out of compassion, I decided to help them after the evening meeting to mind the fire for the dye throughout the night so that they could get some sleep. I went without sleep that night. But do you know, instead of being drowsy and tired that morning, I had lots of energy. I couldn’t understand why I was more awake that morning than most other mornings, so I asked a teacher, “Why?” My teacher told me if you sacrificed your sleep to help others, and you get more energy than you had a good rest, that proved that I had done some good karma. Because of my selfless service to others, I had gotten immediate karmic rewards of energy, happiness and, of course, the friendliness of other monks.

If you act with selflessness, kindness and care to other people, even for other beings, you get immediate reward and positive mental energy, which is happiness. Sometimes, you also get a reward afterwards that last for a very long time. The law of karma is the law of happiness. If you want to be happy, don’t think that the world conspires against you, or that you have to be stuck in a difficult situation, go out there and do something about it. The karma from your past gives you what you have to work with. But the most important part of karma is what you are doing about it right now.

For instance, if, due to your past karma, you have a terrible boss who gives you all his work and goes off to play golf the whole day, what are you doing with your present karma? Because whatever you have to experience in life you can always do something about it. You can get friendly with your boss. Take him out to lunch or dinner, find out what he likes or what his problems are. Talk to him, but choose your opportunities, at the right time and place, and not when he’s busy.

Generally, in life, be it in relationship, business or others, it is about finding the right time and the right place to say the right things. So you wait. If you have a girlfriend who’s giving you trouble, take her out to an expensive restaurant. Give her a sumptuous meal and when she’s at her final course, speak to her so soft and malleable that you can ask her anything you like and she won’t get angry.

When a person is treated kindly, they like to treat you kindly in return. It’s just the law of karma. You may experience a difficult situation due to your past karma, but what you are doing in the present is most crucial. Are you using that experience to be a better person? To learn from it?

Transforming the negative into positive

In my life as a monk, I’ve been in sticky situations. I’ve counselled other people in difficult situations and I’ve always found this active law of karma (“Well this is what you’re experiencing, something negative, and what you’re doing about it.”) very, very powerful.

Once, there was a woman who told me she had been raped. I looked at her and used my mindfulness to find out what sort of woman I was talking to. I quickly found out this was quite a strong and wise person who had enough good karma from the past to be able to deal with it in a special way. So I told her how lucky she was. She looked at me in utter surprise. I don’t usually say this to everyone who had been in this terrible situation. I told her, “I’m not saying that it’s good or whatever but you can actually use that experience and turn it into something wonderful, by contemplating and understanding, to get beyond your pain and to help other women move beyond that experience into freedom.”

“Only people who have had those experiences had an opportunity to help others,” I said. “I, as a monk, as a man can never know how you feel but I can tell you if you make use of that terrible experience you can turn it into something amazing. You can be the counsellor, the friend, the wise one. Only you because you’ve been there. You’ve felt that pain, that abuse so only you can take somebody else’s hand from the place you’ve been and lead them out into freedom.” That I said is how you use a terrible karma and turn it into something wonderful and beautiful. She nodded. She understood and I think she’s on the way not just to her own recovery but also to be a special person in our society who can lead other people out of that terrible situation. Sometimes, only those who felt the very worst of emotional suffering that gets deep inside, not just the physical pain, can actually take the hand of somebody else and say “I know not just how hard it feels but I also know the way out. Come.”

This is an example of how we understand the law of karma even if a devastating thing happens in our life. We can make use of that for the benefit of all other beings. Sometimes you are hurt and tortured by the untimely death of a child, a loved one, maybe a fiancé whom you’re about to get married to, due to an earthquake, a tsunami, a heart attack, or an accident they die. So close to happiness and they’re taken away. Sometimes you ask why. Why do these things happen? I say stop asking that question and get out and do something about it. When we waste time asking why, we are not actually doing something about the situation.

Death comes to all, young and old

During the aftermath of a tsunami, an earthquake, we can give donations, go help look after the injured and the sick, rebuild their homes, rebuild their lives, but most importantly is to learn just how precious life truly is. How easy it is to die, even for a young person. When you realise that, you don’t have time for arguments. You don’t have time for being selfish. If you want to tell someone how much you love them how much you care for them, you do it now. If you have hurt someone you say sorry now. Because the earthquake tells you that sometimes we don’t know how long we have to say these important things to the important people in our life. For life can be snuff out in an instance. This is what an earthquake does, a sudden death, a tragedy. It jots us back to what is truly important in life. And what’s important in life is not wealth or fame but your loved ones and your own spiritual heart. Your goodness, your kindness. This is another example of the law of karma. How can we take what most people call tragedies and turn it into something wonderful and beautiful?

A Buddhist from UK visited and volunteered to work in a refugee camp in Africa some years back. It was a terrible situation there, with many starving children and women but limited food to distribute. Every morning, this lady was given a number. This number represented the number of people she could let in that day. Only that many. The rest had to be kept outside. She knew those who could come in would survive and those outside would die. But if they share the limited food thinly with everyone, nobody would survive. For weeks, this lady had the horrible job of literally choosing who would live, and who would die. Those who heard her story thought that must have been so terrible. But strangely, she told us no, it was one of the most inspiring times of her life. Because every morning when she went outside and said six of you could come in, the starving African women and children said,” Don’t take me, take her, that one over there.” Even though they knew they would die, they gave up their chance so that others may live. It was most inspiring for her to witness the fact that in the face of death, there were people who were so selfless and compassionate. They would rather sacrifice themselves and give life to somebody else. Her faith in humanity, kindness, compassion, selflessness which a religion speaks about but very rarely act upon was fully restored. This is another example of how the law of karma works. The situation that you’re put in, even terrible ones in which you’re about to die, can allow people to be selfless, dying with such grace and inspiration to soar way up into the high heavenly realms.

An act of kindness doesn’t just brighten you up, it also brightens up for all sentient beings. It brings inspiration and goodness into our lives. Instead of lamenting and asking why is this happening to me, learn from it, learn from the mistakes and become a better person.

If you really want you can do whatever and anything you like in this life. You can make a beautiful picture out of something you think is hopeless. I have seen it happened and its wonderfully inspiring to know that is what the law of karma means. All possibilities are open to you; its just some possibilities take more hard work than others. The law of karma means that you are free, you are free to make your future. The present moment, you’re confined to that. You may suffer from a relationship problem, cancer, a loss of job or a divorce but you can always turn it around. You can make a beautiful cake out of the worst ingredients, that’s what it says in my book. That’s what the law of karma means. You create your world. You are in charge. Whatever you got to deal with now, you can make it wonderful and beautiful. You don’t need to be rich to be happy, you don’t need to have the most beautiful girl in the world to have a wonderful wife, you don’t need to have a husband who is earning two hundred thousand a year to have the most wonderful man by your side. It’s up to you what you make of what you’ve got.

Beauty of the heart

I remember once when I was cleaning the hall in Thailand, sweeping behind the cupboard, a girl ran in. At first, I thought she was a burglar because she was looking around to make sure no one was there. I soon recognised her. She was the village girl who was brain damaged from birth. She could not speak, or go to school and could hardly do anything. I wondered what she was doing. I hid and looked from behind the cupboard so she could not see me. I saw her place something in front of the Buddha statue in the main hall. She put her palms together very quickly, looked around and dashed out again. Once she was gone, I went to see what she had left on the altar. It was a paper lotus that she had made. Only a small one, and not very pretty. When I saw that, and I knew where it had come from, how hard it was for her to do that, and how embarrassed she was that she had to sneak in and put it in front of the Buddha statue, I almost cried. I told the other monks when they came in and the abbot who was much senior than me, “Don’t move that paper flower. If you do, I’m going to ge

t angry at you. I’m not going to stand there because I know where that had come from.” That had been a gift, which was so hard for that brain damaged girl to do and she had gone to such extreme lengths to sneak it in and put it in front of the Buddha statue.

To me, that was one of the most beautiful offerings I’ve seen. Because it came from such a pure, generous heart. Even in her difficulty and the need to put in much effort, she made something, and that was a beautiful offering. This is what we mean by karma. It is a joy, a beauty of your heart when you do something like that. It doesn’t matter how big the lotus is, how much the donation is, it doesn’t matter what the act is, it is where it comes from that matters.

When I see people doing inspiring things, I know that is huge good karma. Huge good karma like that creates happiness in this world, for you and for all the other people. So take the opportunity, any chance you have to help someone who’s crying, someone in pain, don’t think about being late for work. Take that chance, do something beautiful and you will never regret it.

Be a good person, a kind person, a virtuous person, a wise person. The Buddha said, the person who sees the Buddha sees the Dharma. So having faith in Buddha is having faith in the Dharma, having faith in truth, in goodness, virtue and purity. Keep then right at the heart of things and you will make huge good beautiful karma.

According to the seed that is sown, So is the fruit ye reap therefrom.

A talk given by Ven. Ajahn Brahm at Kong Meng San Phor Kark See Monastery

A True Act of Kindness

By Vasana Chinvarakorn

Their gestures to each other were brief, austere. But the memory of the scene is etched in my mind -and makes me smile when I think of the pair.

It was a busy Monday evening of traffic-as-usual. I stood at the intersection, waiting, waiting, waiting for the pedestrians’ light to turn green. Continuously, speeding cars filed by, honking, spewing exhaust fumes, fouling the humid air – the purgatory of the stationary sidewalk crowd seemed to last forever.

But thanks to this daily delay, I was able to witness one of the nicest things about fellow humans.

All of a sudden, the man in front of me turned sideways. My eyes followed his move. He was holding an old cranky bicycle in one hand, while the other hand dug into a plastic bag in the bike’s front rack. It produced a crinkly twenty-baht banknote.

My eyes followed his move. What was he trying to do? A few metres from me stood another man, someone who looked so ordinary he would not have “existed” (in my limited world of perception), had the bicycle owner not initiated the event.

What both of them did next proved an old adage: We should not – cannot – judge others by their appearance. There is beauty, and dignity, in the little things that we may have glossed over.

The first man extended his right hand, with the small banknote, to the second man. No words were uttered, but it was apparent he wanted the older man to take the money.

A spectator now, I saw why. The old man had that pitiful look -a dirty blue outfit, the smudgy, peppery hair – of someone who clearly belonged to the lowest of the low echelon.

How the second man responded made me, an observer, feel humble. He shook his head, refusing the sudden charity.

Why? The “giver” himself did not seem to be in a much better state. I recognised him, as a “regular”, who earned his keep by playing the violin in that area. People walked by and around him, some dropping a coin or two in the bag on his bike but most – including me – speeding by, preoccupied by our own errands and thoughts.

But the violin player – and his well-worn instrument – continued to offer the eerie yet soothing music to everyone. When he plays, he is an islet of tranquillity at the centre of the madding crowd.

Now I heard him speak for the first time. He had a tired voice, but it suggested kindness. The violin player said, “Please take it, uncle, so you can buy yourself a bowl of noodles.”

The old man dug his hand into his trousers pocket. He produced a small coin. I stole a glance – the familiar, silver five-baht coin.

The message was clear. The elderly man did not want to be a burden to the violinist. The 20-baht bill would mean a full meal, a stomach not left hungry. But then what could the old man find to eat with that five-baht coin?

The violin player repeated the same sentence. And again. Finally the aged man gave in. The expression on his face was indescribable as the violinist passed the banknote into his wrinkled hand.

A moment of quiet gratitude. The old man shuffled away.

I tried to look ahead. The traffic was still in full motion. We were still waiting. My eyes inched right again, and the back of the violin player came into focus. His shirt was clean but threadbare. There was a patch; the repair job was frankly poor stitching.

The light turned green at last. The violinist hopped on his bicycle and raced away. I crossed the street, unable to catch up. On the opposite side, a few metres on, I spotted a small flower on the pavement.

The wind must have blown it off a tree in the neighbourhood. The pink petals had already started to wilt, but against the hard granite, this small and fragile thing seemed to smile at me. And I felt blessed.

This true account personally witnessed by the writer is reprinted with permission from the Bangkok Post.

 

Ullambana Stories 关于盂兰盆

Ullambana Stories 关于盂兰盆

According to the Ullambanapatra Sutra,  Ullambana is a transliteration of the Sanskrit word that means “deliverance from suffering”. It specifically refers to the liberation of tormented beings in hell by making offering with basin containing the five fruits of a hundred different taste to the Sangha of the ten directions. 据《佛说盂兰盆经》的记载,「盂兰盆(ullambana)」「盂兰」意思是「倒悬」;「盆」的意思是「救器」,所以,「盂兰盆」的意思是用来救倒悬痛苦的器物,衍生出来的意思是:用盆子装满百味五果,供养十方僧众,以拯救入地狱的苦难众生。

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The origin of Ullamabana is closely associated with a story of Maudgalyayana, a chief disciple of Sakyamuni Buddha who was renowned for his psychic powers. One day, while recalling his deceased mother, Maudgalyayana saw with his powers his mother suffering in the hungry ghost realm due to her strong greed. Through his psychic power, Maudgalyayana had food transformed before his mother. But because of her strong greed, it was impossible for her to swallow it as the food would turn into burning charcoal when it enter her mouth. Although Maudgalyayana had great psychic powers, he was still unable to deliver his mother from suffering. Thus, Maudgalyayana approached the Buddha for instruction to liberate his mother from suffering.佛 陀弟子中,神通第一的目犍莲尊者,惦念过世的母亲,他就用神通看到其母亲因在世时的贪念业报,死後堕落在恶鬼道,饿得不成人形,过著吃不饱的生活。目犍莲 於是用他的神力化食物,送给他的母亲,但其母亲不改贪念,见到食物到来,深怕其他恶鬼抢食,贪念一起食物到她口中立即化成炭火,无法下嚥。目犍莲虽有神 通,身为人子,却救不了其母,十分痛苦,於是便请求佛陀指点,如何营救母亲脱离苦海。

The Buddha replied: “The 15th of the seventh lunar month is the last day of the rainy retreat and is filled with wholesome Dharmic joy. Out of compassion to liberate your deceased mother, use a basin to gather food of a hundred different tastes and offer it to the Sangha of the ten directions to accumulate immeasurable merits.  The merits coupled with the pure virtues of the Sangha of the ten directions, would not only liberate your mother but also the parents of all others from suffering.佛陀说:「七月十五日是结夏安居修行的最後一日,法喜充满,在这一天,盆罗百味,供养十方僧众,功德无量,可以凭此慈悲心,救渡其亡母。结合十方僧众德行的威力,不但可以拯救陷在地狱的母亲,脱离苦海,也可以解救别人的父母,让他们也脱离苦海」。

Finally, Maudgalyayana did as the Buddha had instructed and liberated both his mother and the parents of all others. This practice is known as Ullambana in Buddhism. 於是目莲尊者照著佛陀的指示去做,终於解救自己的母亲,并普渡了别人的父母亲;在佛教称为「盂兰盆」法会。

The primary ideology of this Sutra is to liberate the suffering of deceased parents through the merits accumulated by making offering to the Sangha. As the emphasis of this Sutra is filial piety, it is highly regarded by people. The first Ullambana Festival was held by Emperor Wu on the 15th of the seventh Lunar month, Datong fourth years (538), at “Tong Tai” monastery. During the Tang dynasty, the Ullambana Festival was popularised among the commoners. Till today, Ullambana is a part of Chinese culture. 此经的基本思想就是以供僧的功德救度已亡故之父母。由于本经强调孝道思想,所以颇受人们重视。梁武帝于大同四年(538)七月十五日,在同泰寺举办第一次盂兰盆会。到唐代,盂兰盆会便广泛地在民间流行。直至今日,盂兰盆会已成为中国民俗的一部分。

 

Ullambana 盂兰盆节

Ullambana 盂兰盆节

Ullambana, commonly known as “Seventh Lunar Month” or “Hungry Ghost Festival”, is a celebration of Filial Piety. We show gratitude to our parents and ancestors by remembering and paying respects to them.

On the 15 of the seventh lunar month each year, Buddhists participate  in the Ullambana Festival to make offerings to the Sangha of the ten directions. This is done to liberate beings of the three lower realms from suffering, so as to repay the deep kindness of parents.

佛教的盂兰盆节,俗称中元节,其实是孝亲节。这一天,感恩我们的祖先、父母对我们的无私奉献,思念他们的慈悲与关爱。农历七月十五日这天,佛教徒举行「盂兰盆法会」供养十方僧众,济度三恶道苦难,以及报谢父母长养慈爱之恩。

 

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Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva prayer Ceremony 地藏追思报恩法会

On the 1st to 9th of  the Seventh Lunar month, our monastery would conduct a nine day “Ksitigarbha’s Rememberance and Repaying of Kindness Puja”. Venerable Sirs would lead in the recitation of “The Sutra of Bodhisattva Ksitigarbha’s Fundamental Vows” and dedicate it to world peace, well-being of citizens, deliverance of the deceased, and the auspiciousness of those living. 于农历七月初一至九,本寺将启建九天《地藏追思报恩法会》,届时将由法师带领大众念诵《地藏菩萨本愿功德经》,以祈世界和平,人民安乐,先亡得度,现眷吉祥。

Ullambana Puja 盂兰盆超度法会

On the 15th of the Seventh Lunar month, our monastery traditional ” Ullambana Puja” Sutra Recitation invites devotees to make offering to the deceased on this auspiciousness occasion.
于农历七月十五日 ,本寺将启建《盂兰盆超度法会》,由法师念诵经文,欢迎信徒为先亡得度,现眷吉祥。

Ullambana 盂兰盆节

Ullambana 盂兰盆节

Ullambana is a key Mahayana Buddhist concept based on the story of ‘Mahamaudgalyayana saving his Mother’.  A Sanskrit word, it means, “rescuing those who are hanging upside-down.” Traditionally it is referred as ‘seeking salvation for the anguished ones in hell’. (more…)
Clarifications of video misconceptions on Buddhism

Clarifications of video misconceptions on Buddhism

This article hopes to rectify the misrepresentations of Buddhism in the online videos which were recently featured in the news.

1. Last Words of the Buddha

The Buddha’s last words were ‘Subject to change are all conditioned things. Strive on with diligence.’ He was urging us to strive on the way (the Noble Eightfold Path) to liberation (Nirvana; enlightenment) that he already discovered, walked and shared. (more…)

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